Done

I’m done. Done trying to appease those who have done nothing but blame and hurt me. Done going above and beyond for those who will barely even look me in the eye. Done begging for crumbs of attention, of acknowledgment, of appreciation. Done trying to prove my worth to those who don’t care to see it. I’m done letting guilt affect my decisions. Done with the self blame, done with the questioning, done with wondering if this is the right choice. I am done making myself small. I will no longer feel bad for saying enough to the abuse. I will no longer allow the manipulation to control me. I will no longer doubt my decisions, I will trust myself. And I will no longer edit what I say and do to fit the needs of a narcissist who has no regard for anyone but himself.

I refuse to be quiet anymore. I refuse to be meek and submissive. I will proudly state what I believe in and not be ashamed. Because Strong women don’t have attitudes, they have standards and the world can’t have change without people willing to stand up for what’s right. I will protect and care for those who need it and will also protect and care for myself. I will know my worth and not let anyone make me feel less.

I’m done with the person I was. And ready for the person I will become.

I’m done.